So, when people like myself come on here to post a topic...why is it that most of the topics get bashed?

Have you noticed?

I have found thru these blogs that maybe one or two people will have something positive to say on it maybe even helpful...the rest just trash it.

It doesn't really make the topic look bad-it makes the negative users with the negative comments look bad.

How bout a real discussion of how someone can help?  Isn't that kind of the idea?

Share your thoughts and get some good feedback.  While I realize some people's topics may just be garbage--let's give those topics that aren't some good thought.